I have just finished reading two books by Douglas Lee which are called Fatal
Seductions. I would recommend these books to the swingers out there.

READ AND WAKE UP YOUR IDEA!!

ok ok.. a short summary of one of the book...
(the other has the same theme, just different ending)

Fatal Seductions I
This book is about this guy called Steve who is a swinger. In case you do not know, a swinger
is one who 'swings' from a sex-partner to another to another to another.... you get my point.
The type of person who doesn't care about making love but only having sex - recreational sex!
sex for his entertainment purpose! A womaniser, period.

So this Steve was an eligible bachelor. He earned good money as a sales rep., stayed in a condo,
drove a fast car (picture below). He was very good-looking, very confident of himself and very
good at talking and pretending. Women of all shapes and sizes flocked to him, but he wanted only
the prettiest. He had no qualms spending on the women he wanted as long as he can have sex with them.

That was his lifestyle. Each time he will con the innocent women to have sex with him
before he cast them aside. And these same women will go on to have sex with their boyfriends,
their friends or their lovers.. and if they ended up married.. they went on to set up their
own families and have kids. but if they break up, those boyfriends, friends and lovers
will go on to have their other girlfriends and lovers and friends.... blah blah.. so..

Unknown to Steve and the girls he had 'bedded', he already had HIV virus in his system,
contracted from a Thai prostitute who lied that she was a Virgin (so that Steve would pay
her more $$$), when in fact, she never had protected sex with the hundreds of guys she had
sex with. So... what happenend was, everyone who had direct and indirect contact (meaning, the
girls he had sex with went on to bed other guys) with Steve got infected with the HIV virus.

That was the tragedy - started all from JUST ONE little lie, in this case, the Thai pros's.

Steve finally knew about his HIV+ status when one of the girl (Cynthia) whom he had sex
with passed away. He was contacted by the doctor who told him Cynthia was tested HIV+
and that she gave him the contact numbers of those whom she had sex with. This revelation
was too great a blow for Steve to take. He was so young! He had a bright future ahead!

He thought back to the number of girls he had sex with (probably near hundred!) and
pondered whether he should just give the doctor their contacts. In the end, he decided
not to, and chose to escape from reality by jumping to his death from a building.
He was only 30 years old.

So with his death, and without informing his previous sex partnerssssssss about his HIV+
status, he had immorally left his HIV legacy behind and let the virus chain go on and on.

Although this book stated it is just a FICTION,
I can testify that such stories happen in REALITY too.


Over the years I have known many many swingers, be it women or men. There was
this particular case which I remembered among a group of them. It involved
two couples. Let's call them Boy A, Girl A and Boy B, Girl B.

Boy A (a Singaporean working in Malaysia) invited Girl B to his house when
Girl B was holidaying in Malaysia. They had sex.

Girl A (Boy A's girlfriend) was a Singaporean studying in Australia and decided
to holiday in Singapore during her summer holidays before going up North to meet
her boyboy A. Back in Singapore, she met Boy B (boyfriend of Girl B) and they
had sex.

Girl B returned from Malaysia after her trip and carry on having fun with her
boyboy B. They had sex too.

Girl A, before returning to Australia, went up North to visit her boyboy A.
They had sex too.

One day, Girl B discovered, eh.. something wrong down there leh.. then went
for a check-up. She was infected with a STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease),
but she didn't know from who! She called up Boy A in Malaysia and accused
him of passing the STD to her.

Boy A then went for a check-up. He was infected as well, and then he confronted
Girl A that she had been unfaithful and having sex in Australia and passed the
STD to him.

Girl A was worried and went for a check-up and the results was positive. She
confronted Boy B (over the net) and accused him of being unclean.

Boy B went for a check-up and after the results came back positive, called up
Girl A and asked her whether it was she passed the STD to him.

In the end, both couples break up, treated their STD, and went on with their own
lives... err... the same swinger lifestyle as before but with protected sex... not
a very good ending.. i doubt they learnt much from their lessons.